Honey ,lets get naked........emotionally

According to the Urban Dictionary getting emotionally naked is to be straight up serious with someone about the way you feel about them.For most of us, it is easier to get physically naked than to actually open ourselves up. For some showing emotional vulnerability is something to fear and avoid at any cost.
We have learned to built walls and not really say the truth to the people we claim to care about. We forget it is really hard to hide our emotions because we can't control them and when you least expect it they just spew out one way or another.
I don't know about you but I have come to appreciate emotional nakedness.I want the truth, you don't want to spend hours having crazy imaginations of what the truth could possibly be. This is worse for people who have creative, vivid imaginations because lawd!!!! they will think both in and outside the box.
I won't lie and tell you it will be a walk in the park, it is not easy keeping it real but intimacy and passion come from telling truth.In a loving relationship, if you aren't telling the truth, your relationship is slowly dying. If your partner means anything to you then spill it as it is even when the truth means the end. If you don't love the person anymore say it.
If you are hurt kindly talk about it, avoid keeping it in.You will only end up holding a grudge and resentment. It will do no good. If you want more say it. This is how beautiful relationships are made ....you learn to love even when it hurts and you get to understand your partner better.

Bare all your imperfections and your flaws, the scars that torment your soul. The pain that stains your pillow every night as tears drop. Your well-hidden streak of insanity. Just stand there,
every raw emotion in your heart bared, no fortified walls just you and let them see you for you. If they truly love you then they will appreciate you letting them in and together you can make a greater bond of deep friendship and real love.
What can be more beautiful than two imperfect people coming perfectly together all in the name of love? I don't know about you but I would rather get emotionally naked with the man I love. One can't fake such intimacy.





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