Are you aware the nature of rape has changed?

There are times when we question our own humanity because our reasoning sometimes leaves a lot to be questioned. What happens when a  lady is raped by someone they know? Does the fact that she knew him means that she must have wanted to be sexually assaulted? What moronic logic is there to such thoughts! Here is a man who takes advantage of the trust given to him, he literally abuses it in the worst way possible but it is summed up as a misunderstanding.OH well, he must have been teasing him so he couldn't finally take it so he found his way to teach her a lesson. After all, she was the one who invited him to her place and wore that short red skirt, what did she think was going to happen? He is a man for crying out loud !She was the one who  was out late and drinking so she deserves to have her pants ripped forcefully and a man force  himself on her.
The man in question is a well dressed man with a good job,s he must have wanted it but is playing the victim  to get money out of it. If a male friend rapes a woman, no one even bothers to follow up .She cant go to the police because they will laugh and humiliate her more.
We have been taught to be wary of the stranger with the awkward  lustful  stares and we have forgotten to be careful of the trusted friends and family members who hug us warmly  . The closest confidants who smile  so warmly but are secretly planning such hideous crimes. We keep waiting for a stranger that will come and do evil things that will shake our worlds and leave us with scars  so deep they taint our souls.
Does it have to be someone  a lady didn't know for it to be considered a legitimate rape case? It truly angers me that these victims have no one to turn to , the police laugh it off,the society judges them and they are considered guilty of being promiscuous because they knew the assailants.Instead of castrating these men (i use the term loosely) we have come up with a system where we have learned to resonate like the dogs on heat that they are and stigmatize the victims.
A real man does not betray a woman like that , he does not let her down and give her trust issues.He doesn't secretly plot to violate her body in such a demeaning and intrusive way possible.The nature of rape has changed and we need to stop blaming the victims.We should rather deal as harshly as possible with these breed of dogs who have a manly form.No woman walks around screaming'' come rape me!'' not even a mentally insane woman.They have no right to try to take our cookies with no consent.
And for the ladies who have been betrayed and are scared to come out , it is about time you start finding justice because it is not your fault.You need to fight back and roar with your pain loud enough to be heard.It is time you take your life back and you cant move on until you find some level of peace with the unimaginable crime done to you.Remember you not only heal through the process but you help other ladies.It won't be easy but we shall be there to support you as our sister.


He does not have to be a stranger for it to be legitimate rape.

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