''Pick me, choose me, love me''

''Pick me, choose me, love me'', those were the famous words Meredith Grey uttered to  Dr. Shepherd aka McDreamy in season two of Grey's anatomy. Her eyes beseeching, begging for him to just say she is the one.
 It was a sad scene.
I get that love is irrational but you also need to love yourself harder.
I vowed to myself to never tell a man that in my life I don't want to be the woman who needs to beg a man to chose her.If you are in a relationship and you constantly have to ask for your partner's attention,  you are in trouble. I don't care how great a lover someone is or whatever reason you want to give but please have enough dignity to never beg for their love.You don't need to put yourself in a love triangle where you literally get to such a position. Love triangles are definitely messy. It can drive you to a high state of paranoia, always wondering if your partner is with the person.It does nothing for your self-esteem and it is really a stressful situation. It is a choice if they want to be with someone else then let them go. Hey if it were me I would already have his bags packed and Beyoncé's irreplaceable song playing in the background as I wave goodbye.I would also be dressed to kill so he can see what he is leaving. Even if I will probably cry my eyes out I would never give him the pleasure of seeing me broken. If it was truly meant to be then the choice should have been easy. You can't eat your cake and have it too, this is not Hannah Montana's best of both world scenario. Love triangles are the kind of motives that lead to crimes of passion, I don't know about you but it is just not worth it to me.There is also sexual infections .When I look at it I don't see any pros so why you still holding on?Get dressed, hit your favorite hang out and meet new people.Explore new things, take up a new hobby whatever you do make sure you are not crying over someone who clearly doesn't see what an amazing thing it is to have you. In fact look at it as a chance to upgrade....