Death never comes at the right time, despite what mortals believe. Death always comes like a thief.”
― Christopher Pike, The Last Vampire
Losing a loved one is really hard ,it is probably the hardest thing most people have gone through.It can really shake up your whole world and leave you utterly devastated .We all deal with it in our unique ways ,there is no right or wrong way to deal with the grief .It can take a really long time for one to process the new reality
They say it time heals all wounds but it really never goes away ,it just becomes less painful.It begins to hurt less when you think of the fond memories they left you with .Hold on to those memories and believe they are watching over you and when you feel lonely just remember you are not alone. Live everyday to make them proud of you and remember that they loved you too.They would want you to live your life to the fullest.
Don't try to ignore the pain ,deal with it head on ,if you don't it will consume you.Cry as much as you want ,it doesn't mean you are weak.
If you know someone going through this grief and you are wondering what to do to help them ,just be there ,listen compassionately and offer comfort.If you are religious keep them in your prayers
Here is a link to see you again and goodbye sometimes music helps.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UqfLVDIZcP8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RgKAFK5djSk
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